We know we have been in Cambodia a long time when…
Some of us wear jeans in the hot season
Some of our children choose pork and rice for breakfast over croissants and donuts
28 degrees is a nice cool day for the hot season
We eat more rice than pasta and potatoes
Forget how to drive a car and prefer a motorbike
Can’t sleep properly if there is no fan sound
Will equally choose sweet iced coffee or iced tea over the hot variety (I also like bubbles/tapioca pearls added)
I think it creeps up on you. When you first arrive in Cambodia, everything is new and interesting or difficult to adjust to.Your senses are assaulted with noise, smells, sights and people everywhere. It is difficult to say when you feel you have settled in as it is different for everyone.
I think that having a positive attitude and giving things a try balanced with remembering traditions and special things from your home country helps to live well in Cambodia. Learning from Cambodians and asking for help when you need it and using local knowledge for things we have no clue about. When I first came to Cambodia God gave me a picture about walking like Cambodians. The Cambodians say foreigners are known for walking loudly and quickly where as Cambodians will take a much slower and quieter pace, pausing to look around as they go.
In a new culture I think it is a good approach to take a slower pace, to pause and look around before making judgements about how things are done and appreciate the great things about the culture and people. I know there are loads of things I have learnt in my time so far in Cambodia from my Cambodian friends and more I will still have to learn. So if you are new to a country or have been around awhile then take time to pause and look around at the good and amazing things, but also be prepare to work alongside indigenous people to make good changes which will have long lasting benefits.